August is the most popular time of year for Brits to travel abroad and, for many, that means more opportunities for sex. Whether it’s a long-term partner, or a spontaneous holiday fling, getting intimate in a new setting comes with real risks!
STI clinics report a clear, post-summer surge, and many issues come down to simple, avoidable mistakes.
From damaged condoms to public indecency laws, here are 9 things to be aware of before things heat up.
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Letting sand near genitals
Sand isn’t just uncomfortable. It causes micro-abrasions in sensitive areas, especially the vulva, anus and shaft of the penis. These tiny tears can increase the risk of bacterial infections like cystitis and vaginitis, and make it easier for STIs to pass from one partner to another. Always use a clean, thick towel or blanket, and rinse off fully - and let’s all keep ‘sex on the beach’ to a cocktail order!.
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Using suncream without washing your hands first
Most suncreams and tanning products are oil-based, which weakens latex by breaking down its structure. If any oil is transferred to the condom during handling or application, it can cause microscopic tears (or full breakage) during use, making this one of the most common causes of condom failure on holiday. Always wash thoroughly before handling a condom, and only use water-based or silicone-based lubricants.
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Having sex in, or immediately after leaving the water
Whether it's a pool, the sea or a hot tub, water washes away natural lubrication. That creates friction, which increases the risk of pain and condom breakage. Chlorine and saltwater can also damage the vaginal lining and affect pH balance, making it easier for infections to take hold. Always dry off completely, use a new condom every time, and apply a small amount of water-based lube inside the condom tip.
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Storing condoms in hot, or exposed places
Condoms are temperature-sensitive, and prolonged exposure to heat (a hire car, beach bag or hotel windowsill) can degrade latex, and can cause invisible damage. The reverse can also be a problem - and the hold of an aeroplane will get too cold, so condoms should never be packed in checked baggage. Keep condoms in your hand luggage, in a cool, dry pouch or toiletry bag (in their own rigid container!).
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Assuming public sex is just a bit of fun
Public sex may seem spontaneous and exciting, but it’s legally risky. In the UK and many European countries, sex in a public place where others could witness it can lead to arrest under public indecency laws. Even if it’s secluded, you could be seen by a passer-by, a child, or caught on CCTV. You could face fines, a travel ban or even be arrested - and the punishments in many popular tourist destinations can be far more severe!
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Relying on local shops or vending machines for protection
Not all countries stock condoms which would meet UK regulatory standards. Some may lack expiry dates, use non-latex materials without clear labelling, or offer novelty condoms that aren’t designed to offer real protection. Bring more than you expect to use, and pack a mix of regular, textured or flavoured condoms so you're covered for every occasion.
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Not checking the expiry date or packaging
Even the best condom is useless if it’s expired or damaged. Latex degrades over time, and packaging can weaken if exposed to friction or heat. Always check the expiry date, and inspect the wrapper for signs of wear! Puffiness, tears, or discolouration mean it’s not safe to use!
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Forgetting to pack the right lube
Lube matters more than people think! Lack of lubrication is a major cause of condom failure, and some flavoured, or scented products contain ingredients that irritate the vagina or rectum. Always bring a body-safe, travel-sized, water- or silicone-based lube with you (especially in hot, dry or post-swim conditions).
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Skipping a sexual health check before and after travel
A sexual health check before your trip sets a clean baseline, and another one afterwards ensures early diagnosis! Many STIs show no symptoms, and holiday conditions - such as alcohol, new partners and altered routines - increase exposure risk. Most UK clinics are fast, discreet and, best of all, free.
Final thoughts
Sex on holiday should be fun, but not reckless, and planning ahead, and staying protected, is the best way to make sure that the only souvenirs you bring home are ones you wouldn’t mind sharing!
